THE TYPICAL WOMAN

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I will be the first to say that there is some crazy , immoral ass women among today's society (a few of them I know personally) BUT , the typical woman wasn't always typical . Before she was like "everybody else", she was herself. Sweet , loving , caring, giving, trusting ; innocent. Before my love life took its' toll on me I was probably the leader of the I hate typical women fan club. I had all the advice in the world for my friends, family, and even associates about how being typical gets you typical results. Now that I find myself in a lot more typical situations I understand that the TYPICAL woman is not born typical. She is created by pain , insecurities, uncertainty and not knowing her worth.When a woman gives everything to a man and he takes it for granted she becomes uncertain of not only that relationship , but herself and what she brings to the table. This is where most women ruin themselves. Instead of realizing that we are not the problem, our emotions go into over drive and we begin to lower our morality. I believe that in a long term relationship that fails , 72 % of the reason why it had been prolonged is due to the victim in the relationship trying to redeem themselves. NEVER TRY TO PROVE YOUR WORTH IF YOU ALREADY KNOW IT. It's something about the pain from a heart break that can formulate your worse self. I was never the TYPICAL type because I always believed if you went looking for something, (or lurking these days) what ever you found was on you. I thought that females were just crazy and I was just different; turns out I'm not as different as I hoped. Once you get into the habit of being insecure and uncertain of who you are, its THE HARDEST habit to break . I find myself subconsciously planning and plotting and it's sickening. NEVER ALLOW A SITUATION THAT YOU CAN CHANGE TO CHANGE YOU. I no longer believe that women are born typical. They can be born crazy (which is 9 times out of 10 can be worse lol) but not typical . When we forget our worth , we begin to act worthless. As I stumble around to find myself, l gained more understanding and respect for the TYPICAL WOMAN. The woman who loves more than she is loved, the woman who don't know how beautiful she is because of the pain and turmoil she's been through , the woman that lives inside her mind just waiting to be found. God bless the TYPICAL WOMAN , because that woman is now me.