Matters of the Heart

Being in love these days , your better off just dating yourself(can you taste the bitterness?). You can give your significant other your complete self and they'll still be asking for more. When do you stop giving? My answer is NEVER. You just have to know how to give in a healthy manner. I'm a Scorpio (yes astrology!) and when I love , I love hard and unchanging (ask my friends and family) . Love it self is pure and innocent. For starters , you have to know whats love and whats not. I had to learn the hard way. Real love balances out the heart with the mind. Believe it or not they can be on the same page! Love is not taking shit off of the next person , it's helping them clean the shit they have on them off (sounds disgusting right?). Matters of the heart will have you so confused that it will consume so much of your mental that everything your trying to accomplish outside of your love life will crumble. That's why its so important to love YOU first. That way you can guide your significant other in the right direction . They say wisdom comes with age , but I believe experience is the best teacher. When have you ever known a balance beam to work out unbalanced? That's what loving a person more than they love you create.When it comes to matters of the heart , and you seem stumbled just use this check list . What affect is your "heart" having on your mental? Do you know how blissful it is to be free of a situation that is more stressful than it is not? Is it worthy of you? I strongly believe that on both sides ,there is ALWAYS better , but are you lowering your standards to suit your situation? And last but not least , Is it Equal? What is your balance beam looking like?