P L E A S E!

People love to give ignorant opinions/advice on situations that they’ve never been in or are bias to . PLEASE . Everyone is different and is affected differently by common situations . Who’s to say the girl suffering from a long term break up isn’t feeling the same pain as a woman who’s going through a divorce , or the man who lost his job isn’t feeling as low as the man who’s been trying to get one . You see trials and tribulations may mirror, but character varies . It is imperative to be cautious of the people you have advising you because though you may not feel or think you care or is taking anything from the conversation , psychologically as humans what we take in is put into our subconscious and over analyzed . You don’t want the wrong information in your archive . Think about it , if you’ve been portraying this confident and smart being for years and all you’ve been hearing is how you need to be knocked off your high horse or how not so smart you are , as soon as your faced with adversity that’ll be the first thing your brain recollect. It’s harder to get up when you feel as though the people closest to you are against you .  

Also, Don’t be the person who always has input when you haven’t been through anything . It’s so easy to say what you would have done when it’s not your turn to do it . Perhaps I was born with the gift of empathy, but it can be learned . We live in a time where it seems as though you have more people praying for your down fall rather than lifting you up . (Especially family) . So what do I advise? Before you look to humans for advice or comfort, pray about it. No one will have your best interest at heart like the man upstairs. Secondly, what can you gain from the person you confide in? Have they been through anything? Do they show true interest in your situation or well being? Some people just ask to hear what’s going on to make themselves feel better. & last but not least ; do you really need advice? Majority of the time when we ask for advice on a situation we have in our mind what to do (whether it’s the right thing or not) so we seek out at least one person to agree with our idea . Who knows how many people you had to put into your business (archive) to get that one agreement you felt like you needed so badly. You go through things to build character and if every time you go through something , your collecting the wrong bricks , your going to continue to go through things and wonder why your so miserable . So to all the people in your life or circle that you leave behind becoming a better you , PLEASE . To all the doubters/jealous people who act as though their for you, PLEASE & To all the unnecessarily bias/opinionated people looking from the outside in , PLEASE . 

You see , once you come into your PLEASE persona your circle may become smaller but your reconstruction of character will actually begin to look like something. They say when you begin to focus on the right things in life all the wrong ones mysteriously disappear! -Anita W.