Why Are Relationships So COMPLICATED?!

Relationships are so COMPLICATED! . Especially with the generation of men we've been plagued with (and I do mean PLAGUED). With all the advice I give to multiple people, the issues center around the mind set of the males of this generation . My personal opinion of why we have more boys than men to marry is due to the lack of belief instilled in today. Its not a coincidence that almost everybody is having the same relationship problems . Don't get me wrong , THE WOMEN OF TODAY AREN'T INNOCENT (but this post isn't about them). I was studying the "Uncommen Husbands" on my Bible App and a light bulb went off inside my head . WE GOT IT ALL WRONG ! .

Relationships are trash today because our humanistic nature is to evolve with time . We even try to evolve things that don't need changing (like the relationship dynamic). In the "Uncommen Husbands" plan it is explained what love is. Let me give you an overview; "Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things". Can any of the men your dating pass this test with missing only one or two of those qualities? (I know mines was a total STRIKE OUT lol). We've evolved into believing that you learn to love a person for who they are and if you love them for who they could be, you will be disappointed . ITS BOTH. Loving a person for ONLY who they are, not what they could be results in your partner being stagnant and never becoming who they are meant to be. Back in the day, men use to marry not only because of who the woman was; but because they saw something her. Something that they could groom, magnify ; POTENTIAL . Males in 2018 (well majority anyway) are more so worried about a woman being better than them or finding better else where. Instead of grooming the potential they see , they break down their significant other mentally and rebuild a more robotic version (a form of mental slavery). If our generation of men believed more in God and LESS in themselves, I can guarantee that the amount of relationship problems that we're experiencing would decrease.

This world has groomed our men to be high maintenance (and I do mean groomed). They believe they should be served. Anything they have to offer in a relationship is considered a privilege and anything their women have to offer is considered a REQUIREMENT. If you ask a man what he looks for in a woman today, the FIRST quality would be SOMEONE WHO LISTENS . Matthew 6:24 states that "No man can serve two masters: for either he will hate the one, and love the other; or else he will hold to the one, and despise the other. Ye cannot serve God and mammon" . Relationships are so complicated today because we have evolved into serving man and not God . The bible tells us ONLY to serve a man if he is a man of God . Being submissive to a man of this world is idolatry.

You see , you cannot give all of yourself to someone who has no sense of belief and expect the perfect relationship; there is only ONE master; One God. The word relation is defined as a system of reciprocation. If your the only one giving, your inevitably doomed! We have all these women giving all of themselves to a man who don't deserve half of them and they wonder why it's not being reciprocated. If your like me, you wonder what you've done to deserve such bad karma .

Welp, now we know!!!!!

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How to un-complicate your relationship when you're not the one who don't believe you ask? You can either get out of that complicated relationship and watch the ANTI - F BOY GLOW take over your life: Orrrrrrr, you can confront the problem at hand, BELIEVE HARDER and pray for your significant other.

I'll leave the decision making process up to you!